But dude, friendships evolve sometimes, either for good or for bad and it sounds like yours has evolved for good!
I find more and more these days I have to cull old friends as they slip to the wayside in their lack of communication, involvement and as things happen. Sad, but hey, people drift apart.
And, you have a top time as Matron of Honour, sounds like you're the best pick for it!
You're very qualified to be Maid of Honour by the sounds of it.
I think lots of good friendships tend to be the ones where each party balances the other out, Bestie and I tend to do it and it's been working for us for almost ten years :)
rom - hooray! I have found there are friends that are getting waylaid for those same reasons, but I guess it jus sorta happens without really noticing... and you'll be sure to read aaaaaaaaaall about the wedding stuff ;o)
d'jen - awww, thanks! I think it's proddly the only friendship I have that is such an opposite - tho I guess the more I think about it now, there are jus as many 'in common's!
Friendships come in many guises - and they also change over time.
I was discussing this very subject over dinner with a friend of mine last week. We're very close, and can talk about anything, but we see each other no more than a couple of times a year.
I then have my best friend, who I see/talk to/text on a daily basis.
And so on.
Anyway, my point is that this is obviously a very good friendship - you are obviously very comfortable and honest with each other, which is always an excellent basis for friendship.
And you will have a blast as Maid of Honour - just remember to tactfully stand up for yourself in the dress choosing!
martie - she proddly knows the most honest stuff about me of all of my friends! The first dress fitting is two weeks away - she's already announced that they'll be strapless and proddly navy blue-ish (and I'm on my second day of WW point counting - yay for two 18pt days!)
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But dude, friendships evolve sometimes, either for good or for bad and it sounds like yours has evolved for good!
I find more and more these days I have to cull old friends as they slip to the wayside in their lack of communication, involvement and as things happen. Sad, but hey, people drift apart.
And, you have a top time as Matron of Honour, sounds like you're the best pick for it!
You're very qualified to be Maid of Honour by the sounds of it.
I think lots of good friendships tend to be the ones where each party balances the other out, Bestie and I tend to do it and it's been working for us for almost ten years :)
rom - hooray! I have found there are friends that are getting waylaid for those same reasons, but I guess it jus sorta happens without really noticing... and you'll be sure to read aaaaaaaaaall about the wedding stuff ;o)
d'jen - awww, thanks! I think it's proddly the only friendship I have that is such an opposite - tho I guess the more I think about it now, there are jus as many 'in common's!
Friendships come in many guises - and they also change over time.
I was discussing this very subject over dinner with a friend of mine last week. We're very close, and can talk about anything, but we see each other no more than a couple of times a year.
I then have my best friend, who I see/talk to/text on a daily basis.
And so on.
Anyway, my point is that this is obviously a very good friendship - you are obviously very comfortable and honest with each other, which is always an excellent basis for friendship.
And you will have a blast as Maid of Honour - just remember to tactfully stand up for yourself in the dress choosing!
martie - she proddly knows the most honest stuff about me of all of my friends! The first dress fitting is two weeks away - she's already announced that they'll be strapless and proddly navy blue-ish (and I'm on my second day of WW point counting - yay for two 18pt days!)
sometimes opposites fill the void that you leave behind.
puzzle pieces.
m - woo! deep =o) it's the yin yang - two parts making a whole.
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