tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post115297352044804311..comments2023-10-31T01:25:35.870+11:00Comments on Welcome to the Enny-Pen: Coincidence?Ennyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153742586782236482006-07-24T22:03:00.000+10:002006-07-24T22:03:00.000+10:00halliwell - it's like a lil time capsule, innit? L...halliwell - it's like a lil time capsule, innit? Like I can look back at an entry and think 'Ooh, I remember how angry I was' and laugh at it - but if the person who it were about were to read it, you can understand the seeing it a lil different ;o)Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153309816641863872006-07-19T21:50:00.000+10:002006-07-19T21:50:00.000+10:00erica - it has crossed my mind. Tho now I'm not s...erica - it has crossed my mind. Tho now I'm not saying anything to anyone about them, so I don't really have anything to worry about. And it's true: it is obviously available to just anyone, AS WELL as it being true that it's eventually gonna be found - even if I start a new one!Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153305022897841102006-07-19T20:30:00.000+10:002006-07-19T20:30:00.000+10:00Start a secret blog. That is the answer to your p...Start a secret blog. That is the answer to your problems.<BR/><BR/>But then, a fellow blogger once said to me that writing anything on a blog is like shouting it out in the middle of Bourke Street (or whatever your city's local public mall is called), and if you don't want someone to know you've said it, then don't say it.<BR/><BR/>That said, a secret blog can buy you some time to say what you need to say, although I think it's inevitable that someone will find it eventually.Ericahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14349949766650578072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153207989913890492006-07-18T17:33:00.000+10:002006-07-18T17:33:00.000+10:00angela - So that explains your hiatus? It's pretty...angela - So that explains your hiatus? It's pretty terrible the way these things worked out - I figured that if I'd stopped they'd proddly find me however they found it last, so there wasn't much point. You would think admitting is common courtesy, but I think it was a cross between guilt and wanting to straighten out my point of view that led to the confession - if some of that stuff wasn't on there, I dun think I woulda been told.<BR/><BR/>(and I hope u lemme know where you are if you start up again!)Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153139305389523162006-07-17T22:28:00.000+10:002006-07-17T22:28:00.000+10:00this is pretty much what happened to me... i found...this is pretty much what happened to me... i found out that someone i knew in RL had been reading my blog for months, but never mentioned it to me. it really bothered me, cause it was all so sneaky and the only reason i found out was by complete fluke. so i'm just cooling it for a while... i tried moving the blog, but he kept searching. so i'm just gonna leave it till they give up, and then start a new anonymous one i think. <BR/><BR/>i guess you could ask the people in RL you know are reading this not to...?<BR/><BR/>atleast your people told you though! i think that's just common courtesy, really.spazzyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12345021987338012268noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153123330671909742006-07-17T18:02:00.000+10:002006-07-17T18:02:00.000+10:00susanne - it definately puts a bit of a tint on th...susanne - it definately puts a bit of a tint on things, yeah? But I will soldier one - whatta battlah ;o)<BR/><BR/>matty - I'm sorry to hear that - I had no idea! But thankyou for your support *blush*Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153088461676860522006-07-17T08:21:00.000+10:002006-07-17T08:21:00.000+10:00Enny- This is something I struggle with too, as I ...Enny- This is something I struggle with too, as I do have some real-life friends reading the blog, and as a result, I tend not to go in depth about what is happening in my life for that very reason- I only put up what I'm happy to put in the public sphere. <BR/><BR/>It's hard to draw a line between keeping things interesting and not giving away more than you want to.<BR/><BR/>I hope you keep up with the blog and that you don't listen to the naysayers. <BR/><BR/>Cheers,<BR/><BR/>Susanne<BR/><BR/>xoxSusannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09072369587698652657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153054380198096002006-07-16T22:53:00.000+10:002006-07-16T22:53:00.000+10:00DJ - thanks - I think some peace is on it's way......DJ - thanks - I think some peace is on it's way...<BR/><BR/>halliwell - that's exactly it. And I can see it from both points of view. I think that it will be a little time before I get over the shock of not everyone being mad at me, and settle more into the fact that there was different levels of betrayal all over the place. And I'll do my best ;o)Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153028554280608232006-07-16T15:42:00.000+10:002006-07-16T15:42:00.000+10:00There is nothing worse than awkward situations. Ho...There is nothing worse than awkward situations. Hope everything blows over soon :)Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01585397453741674520noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153027957358064172006-07-16T15:32:00.000+10:002006-07-16T15:32:00.000+10:00DJ - Thankyou for your understanding. I wouldn't c...DJ - Thankyou for your understanding. I wouldn't close down - I just need to talk about 'othert things' and wait out what's happening in RL... things are getting more and more awkward atm ;o)Ennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15613379734506337694noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-12231828.post-1153011486602243782006-07-16T10:58:00.000+10:002006-07-16T10:58:00.000+10:00I can so understand what you mean about not wantin...I can so understand what you mean about not wanting certain people to read, or have read your blog.<BR/><BR/>My blog is very much my 'own' stuff, and it's not something I would want to share with people I know in person, I for all the same reasons you have.<BR/><BR/>I *LOVE* that that I 'friends' on my blog who are able to provide insight and advice on things that can't or don't want to share with my 'real' friends.<BR/><BR/>I don't know what you should do from here. I have no idea what I would do in the situation. I don't know if I could keep my old blog, once it had been found. For me it would have ruined everything that I wanted my blog to me. My own public, yet private slice of myself. <BR/><BR/>Maybe just pack up and start again on a new blog? <BR/><BR/>Good luck with things Enny.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01585397453741674520noreply@blogger.com